(Incidentally, in-shape black women blow away the competition when it comes to having great figures, which in most cases completely compensates for imperfect hair.) 2.
Shape matters more than size - up to a certain point.
Furthermore - and more importantly - a woman in the flesh is far more real and immediate than a woman on a screen or the page of a magazine, and this immediacy translates directly into sexual power.
In this sense, the advantage that the "girl next door" has over these "fantasy girls" is huge.
You'd be unnecessarily harsh on yourself to judge your body based on weight alone, but some women recognize the above phenomenon, and then wrongly excuse their size based on comments from friends that they have a "Kim Kardashian ass" or a "Beyonce butt." Comments like this are usually made by friends who are more interested in making you feel good about yourself than accurately describing your figure. In the same way that you don't need a guy who is as daring, strong, attractive and clever as James Bond, men don't need a woman with a perfect body to be aroused - even wildly aroused.
While occasionally they will be sincere, you should think twice and make a strong effort to be honest with yourself before believing them. Most of us know that the models we see in the media are unrealistic and only portrayed at their best (just like you know that men like James Bond don't really exist).
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.Within reasonable limits, an unhealthy body is preferable over an unhealthy mind.